When we established Miss Behavin' Bikhers in 2005, we were a group of long time friends and riding companions who had been chapter members in a worldwide organization. We held no hard feelings towards that organization, but after 10 years, we did not feel "connected" with the other chapters and did not feel as if we were reaping any benefits in exchange for our yearly dues. So without spite, malice, nor disrespect, we made the unanimous decision to strike out as an independent club.
There are many different types of clubs in the motorcycle community. Some have "business" agendas above and beyond riding and comraderie, but ours is not one of them. For this club, it's all about the ride. The one thing we do hold in common with all of them, is the desire to bond with like minded individuals. I mean really, that's why the world is full of clubs in all walks of life, and chances are that describes you, or you wouldn't still be reading this. Finding a group that fits is the tricky part.
Surf the net for female motorcycle clubs/organizations, and you will often see that their mission is to "promote a positive image." That's fine in theory, but we feel it's a relative statement. Who's idea of positive are you using? My idea of positive does not include taking someone's money, giving them a back patch and sending them out on the road to represent the organization without regard to who they are or what their riding ability is. Those groups I guess, are just a little too warm and fuzzy for us. Because we just don't stand here with open arms for every single woman that has decided she wants to ride. We truly are laid back, but we have two steadfast rules, and they seem to be what keeps our group small.
Rule #1 This club requires that full members are experienced or at least competent, confident riders.
I can empathize with anyone that gets that desire to start riding a motorcycle, but if you ride so poorly that you are a menace to yourself and your riding companions, or you are so afraid while riding that your knuckles are white, you aren't ready for us yet. We were all new to riding at some point, and there are plenty of organizations who would gladly welcome a new rider, but we prefer to ride with women who have skill and self confidence. That doesn't necessarily mean that you can't come hang out with us and let us get to know you. We will accept novice riders as associate members. Once we feel your skill level is up to par, then we can consider you for full membership.
Rule #2 : We require that members attend a minimum of 9 out of 12 monthly meetings a year in addition to participation on rides and events.
If rule #1 isn't enough to send women scurrying away, rule #2 seems to be. As I mentioned before, we really are laid back, particularly in comparison to other clubs. We don't run our meetings by Roberts Rules and such, it's more of a social event. But we do like to host runs and such, and in order to have a successful organization, all members need to contribute so that it can reach it's potential. That requires each member to be capable of commitment.
If those two things haven't dashed your interest, then we'd love to meet you. You can contact us and we'll let you know when and where you can meet us in person.
